I always wonder why guys think girls are so hard to understand. To me we are perfectly understandable, we hide our emotions and when we aren't acting "normal" we are either PMSing or upset about something...not that difficult right? To me boys are so much harder to understand, you think there is something there and then your hopes come crashing down. A girl goes from liking a guy, writing his name in her notebook, to daydreaming about their wedding day.
In elementary school girls learn that a boy likes you if he bullies you and pulls your hair. I'm in college and it’s pretty much the same. Girls hook up with random guys at parties; guys hook up with as many girls as they can and then show off to their guy friends after. People make charts trying to do a "6 degrees of separation" type thing and hook up with people just to make another connection. You hook up with someone a friend has hooked up with and boom you're on this chart. So dumb, why can't kissing be with someone you have a steady relationship with? Why can't you start with a date, holding hands, hugging, then move to kissing. Don't boys still have cooties?
Also, why do guys think that girls need to make the first move? Is it so hard to want a fairy tale meet? Running into someone in the hallway or bumping into them, papers flying everywhere and its love at first sight. Why can't a relationship happen that way? Why does it have to be awkward or uncomfortable? I hate how you found a good guy and really started to like him but of course, he likes someone else; such is life I guess.
P.S. To all guys, most girls want a fairy tale. They want to be a princess, and you to be their prince.
~~Just My Opinion
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